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DASH into December

Put DASH on your Holiday Gift List this Season!

#GivingTuesday

Support safe housing on December 2^nd by participating in #GivingTuesday, a global day of charitable giving for your community.

$25 provides a child living at DASH a winter coat
$75 provides a holiday meal for a family in safe housing
$150 provides 3 safe nights for an entire family.

Help us reach our goal of raising $10,000 – every dollar you donate will be matched! Visit: www.razoo.com/givingtuesday4dash. To learn more, email Mari at mvangenadams@dashdc.wpengine.com.

Holiday Wish List

Help DASH ensure that every survivor and family has a joyful holiday season by donating a gift or hosting a gift drive. We are accepting new, unwrapped donations until December 17^th. Gift donations are a great way to make a big difference in the lives of DASH families.

For Women: Gift cards, Purses, Lotions, Perfumes, Nail polish, Journals.
For Children: Infant/toddler toys and clothes, Black baby dolls, Family movies, Legos, Educational books.

To donate gifts or host a gift drive, email Jasmine at jowens@dashdc.wpengine.com. You can also shop using our Amazon Wish List or the Target Wish List.

5 Ways to Participate in Domestic Violence Awareness Month

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month! Take action this October to show your dedication to ending domestic violence in your community.

1. Donate to a local domestic violence shelter

Many women escaping abuse fall into homelessness or remain in abusive situations because of the scarcity of safe housing. At domestic violence shelters, such as DASH, safe housing is provided so victims don’t have to choose between living with their abusers or being homeless. Consider making a donation to DASH safe housing today!

2. Buy Your Ticket to BalderDASH on October 30th

BalderDASH is a fun, lively evening reception to celebrate DASH’s impact as DC’s largest dedicated safe housing provider for survivors. BalderDASH is held each year in October and will take place this year on October 30^th at the Mansion on O Street. Tickets include a tour of the unique venue (and many secret passageways), a jazz quartet and refreshments. Buy your ticket before they run out!

3. Can’t come to BalderDASH? Find another event!

Check out the DC Domestic Violence Awareness Month Calendar coordinated by the DC Coalition Against Domestic Violence. The calendar includes everything from marches to dance parties all organized by local organizations committed to ending domestic violence in the District.

4. Wear Purple on October 23rd for Purple Thursday

October 23rd is Purple Thursday, a day to raise awareness of about domestic violence as an office, a family or an organization. Wear your brightest purple and post a photo with the caption #SpeadtheLoveDC. Register here.

5. Engage with DASH on Social Media

Follow us on Twitter or Facebook to join in the conversation and share messages of hope that domestic violence is unacceptable and that all survivors deserve a chance to rebuild their lives on their own terms.

6 things you need to understand about domestic violence

1. Domestic violence is all about one person maintaining power and control over another. It isn’t a one-time loss of temper, it’s a pattern of intentional abuse.

2. Domestic violence isn’t just physical abuse, it’s emotional, psychological, financial and sexual. Domestic violence is put downs, threats, isolation and jealousy.

3. Domestic violence does not discriminate, it occurs in every occupation and income level, across all races, sexual preferences and gender identities, and in every family type.

4. Domestic violence is a learned behavior. It isn’t caused by alcohol abuse, anger management or stress. Abusers see it growing up, in their community, family, peer group or school.

5. Don’t ask, “why doesn’t she just leave.” Questioning the intentions and actions of victims of domestic violence contributes to a culture in which victims are blamed for their abuse, instead of abusers.

6. There is no right way to be a survivor of domestic violence. Every person has a different experience with abuse and deserves support and respect as they make their own choices regarding their relationship.

October is domestic violence awareness month. Purchase something from the DASH Amazon Wish List to directly impact a survivor of abuse and their family.

DASH Back to School BBQ and Art Show

Last night DASH unveiled our brand new grill, donated by My Sisters/My Friends, for our first annual back to school BBQ. Residents, volunteers and DASH friends gathered to eat hot dogs, pineapple kabobs and an abundance of watermelon. It was a great opportunity to welcome in a new school year and build upon the already strong community at DASH.

The BBQ was immediately followed by the Art Show put on by the wonderful Art Ladies, Anne Marie and Beth of the Red Derby and the Arcade, who lead the DASH weekly Art Group. The DASH Art Group is not your average art class, the kids rarely spend time simply coloring, instead they make Picasso inspired paintings, splatter paint and dye scarves. The Art Show is a time to appreciate the amazing work that Art Group does every week. The children acted as docents, able to describe the inspiration of certain pieces as they took volunteers, parents and staff on tours.

We are so thankful to all the volunteers, supporters and especially the kids who made the BBQ and Art Show possible.

International Visitor Leadership Program

On Wednesday, August 13th two DASH staff attended a Department of State-sponsored International Visitor Leadership Program entitled “Combating Gender-Based Violence.” Michelle Linzy and Afusat Olaifa were joined by representatives from Break the Cycle, The Asian/Pacific Islander Domestic Violence Resource Project (DVRP) and hosted by the DC Coalition Against Domestic Violence. They met with five visitors from the Palestinian Territories who work in the domestic violence field in order to share experience and information. The purpose of the event was to “examine various social service agencies involved in the prevention, treatment and assistance to victims of domestic abuse.” The visitors represented the continuum of domestic violence services provided in the Palestinian Territories.

Saeda N.N. Alattrash: Director of the Mehwar Center, a shelter and referral center for survivors of abuse.
Nidal K.A. Alawawdeh: Public Prosecutor working mainly on cases of violence against women.
Maysoon Sayyed Ibrahim Qawasmeh: Head of the Palestinian News Agency, Wafa.
Sherin J.S. Shalabi: Psychologist for the Palestinian Working Women Society for Development.
Shadi K.D. Zidat: Project Coordinator at the Palestinian Initiative for the Promotion of Global Dialogue and Democracy.

The DASH representatives enjoyed the conversation immensely. They were able to discuss issues and partnerships with law enforcement, governmental support, and safety and confidentiality practices. Michelle, the DASH Addictions Specialist, said that the event caused her to reflect on the work that she does every day with survivors, “I realized there is always more we could be doing.” Michelle and Afusat also enjoyed connecting with Break the Cycle and DVRP and hearing about the great work that other domestic violence organizations are doing in DC.

Both Michelle and Afusat felt motivated and grateful after meeting with the Palestinian representatives, who are doing great work to combat domestic violence in Palestine. Michelle states, “the men and women we met with are doing everything they can to ensure that survivors have what they need.”

The big takeaway from the event was that regardless of nationality we are all working towards one common goal: to end domestic violence. “Domestic violence doesn’t know age, country or color. It doesn’t discriminate.” said Afusat, Resident Advocate and Children and Family Activities Coordinator, “I am so glad I went, it gives me the motivation that I need to continue working with families at DASH.” Andrea Gleaves, of DCCADV, who organized the event echoed Afusat’s sentiments, “Ms. Alattrash said it best when she said ‘we are all advocates,’ the challenges that we face here working for survivors of domestic violence are similar to those they face in the Palestinian Territories and across the world.”

We look forward to more opportunities to share experiences with other like minded domestic violence advocates. A big thank you to Andrea Gleaves and the DC Coalition Against Domestic Violence for inviting us to attend!

“If everyone helps to hold up the sky, then one person does not become tired.” – Askhari Johnson Hodari

Revolution: DASH goes to the Diaper Bank

Last weekend Revolution: DASH took a trip to the DC Diaper Bank to learn about their work and volunteer! Revolution: DASH is our youth service learning club, founded and run by the younger DASH residents. Every month we take time to learn about and volunteer in our community. In the past we have worked with the local neighborhood association and the Capital Area Food Bank, but this was our first field trip and we were excited. In the car on the way to the warehouse we played trivia and learned some interesting facts, like that in a single month an infant requires 100 diapers, and 1/3 of families struggle to buy sufficient diapers every month. We were able to reflect on why it’s so important that all families have access to diapers.

We then spent our afternoon packaging diapers, eating girl scout cookies and breaking down boxes. The kids had a blast and worked hard, at times even carrying three boxes of diapers at a time! At the end of the day we had packed over 1,400 diapers in two hours!

What made the trip so special is that DASH partners with the DC Diaper Bank to provide our residents with diapers each month. We were even able to organize the diapers we needed to transport to DASH while volunteering! We were glad for an opportunity to learn about issues that effect our community while giving back to such a wonderful organization.

At the end of the day we had some hard earned deep dish pizza and discussed our trip. When asked what their favorite part of the day was, the kids thought first of the pizza, obviously. But they also talked about how great it was to see the real impact of their work as the pile of diapers grew bigger and bigger, about how they enjoyed working outside and inquired as to when we could go back.

A big thanks to the DC Diaper Bank for hosting us! To learn about you can volunteer with the Diaper Bank check out their website: http://www.dcdiaperbank.org/get-involved/events/

Top 11 Reasons you should donate to DASH for Do More 24

Do More 24 is THIS THURSDAY! Check out our top 11 reasons you should donate to DASH to give where you live and then bookmark our Do More 24 page!

A donation to DASH will help ensure that no one has to choose between living in an abusive home and living on the street.
DASH has a unique model and innovative mission. We are “low barrier” meaning we don’t screen out survivors based on their drug use or mental health status. Our mission is to provide safe housing for those who need it, it’s that simple.
DASH is the District’s largest dedicated housing provider for survivors of domestic violence and their children. In 2013, DASH safely housed 225 individuals in our programs, providing over 80,000 “safe nights” for victims away from the threat of violence.
At DASH we work hard to make sure that survivors have a place to call home, not just a shelter. Each of the 60 families we work with has their own apartment where they can live safely and independently and are connected to a range of community resources to help them move toward long-term or permanent housing.
DASH is an award winning organization! Most recently we received the Mary Byron’s Celebrating Solutions Award for our innovative approach to safe housing.
DASH allows survivors and their families to reside with us for up to two years. While most shelters provide housing for only 30 days, DASH opens doors for a significantly longer time to ensure that our residents are ready to move out on their own terms.
At DASH we don’t just serve the adults, we prioritize the health and wellbeing of the whole family through our Children’s Program with parenting classes, family movie nights, and art group.
DASH educates policy makers and service providers on principles and best practices of successfully assisting survivors of domestic violence in recognizing that they are empowered and whole
DASH is committed to holistic healing. We understand that everyone heals on their own time, in their own way so we strive to provide a diversity of options for our residents including acupuncture, healing touch, animal therapy, cooking classes and gardening.
At DASH we have a weekly yoga class for our youngest toddler residents. Three-year olds doing yoga, enough said.
A little goes a long way! Any donation can benefit a survivor of domestic violence and their family.

Click HERE to donate on Thursday!

Do More 24: The Volunteer Experience

Tayler Esherick is a rising senior at the University of Maryland. She started at DASH volunteering with Art Group and has continued to work with DASH as a summer front office volunteer.

My first visit to Cornerstone was through a Women’s Leadership course I took at the University of Maryland. Our Professor partnered with DASH to discuss domestic violence and the characteristics of a low-barrier shelter. First, my classmates and I talked to DASH professionals while in the classroom. Then, we came to Cornerstone and talked with some of the residents as well as the staff. My experience at DASH made me want to get more involved, so I started volunteering in the Children’s Art Group.

I have always enjoyed working with children and was very excited to work with the kids of DASH. I absolutely loved volunteering for art group, all of the children were excited about the art projects, and tried their best to create a masterpiece each week. I believe that art is a great way to creatively express yourself which has been extremely beneficial for these children. One of the best parts about art group is that there is a new and exciting activity each week for the kids to engage in so there is never a dull moment. At the end of the year, the children put on an art show where they pick their favorite pieces which are framed, and displayed in the hallways. During the art show the children show our guests and donors all the art work and discuss how each piece was made. My favorite part of volunteering for DASH is interacting with the children and their parents. I love being able to give the children an opportunity for fun outside of the school day and their apartment.

Why should you choose DASH on June 19^th for Do More 24?

DASH has a very unique mission that I believe is extremely effective when it comes to helping their residents. The low barrier housing model that they use puts trust in the residents and gives them responsibilities that they might not have in another shelter. DASH also stresses this idea of re-centering, where you address problems by figuring out how you, your family, or any other relationship has become unbalanced. Re-centering can help survivors bring themselves back to equilibrium of mind and body. Overall, I believe DASH is a great place for volunteers who want an enriching experience.

Donate to DASH for Do More 24, a 24 hour online giving campaign run by the United Way of the National Capital Area. Click here for more information.

Grant from the Meyer Foundation!

Grant from the Eugene and Agnes E. Meyer Foundation

We are excited to announce that we recently received our first grant from the Eugene and Agnes E. Meyer Foundation! The contribution of 25,000 will be used to support our safe housing programs and services for survivors of domestic and sexual violence and their families.

Founded in 1944 by Washington Post publisher Eugene Meyer and his wife, author and social activist Agnes Ernst Meyer, the Meyer Foundation identifies and invests in visionary leaders and effective community-based nonprofit organizations that are working to create lasting improvements in the lives of low-income people in the Washington, DC metropolitan region, and works to strengthen the region’s nonprofit sector as a vital and respected partner in meeting community needs.

“It’s an honor for DASH to be accepted as a first-time grantee of the Meyer Foundation” said Peg Hacskaylo, Executive Director of DASH. “This support is not only generous but also critical as it funds general operations. We appreciate the Meyer Foundation’s dedication to nonprofits through this type of support, which will allow DASH to continue its innovative mission to provide safe housing and services for survivors of domestic and sexual violence and their families in Washington, DC.”

We were one of twenty-eight organizations to receive a grant through the Meyer Foundation’s Healthy Communities program area, which supports organizations that provide healthcare and other essential services and advocacy organizations working to advance policy changes that will lead to lasting improvements in the lives of low-income people throughout the Washington, region.

Thank you so much Meyer Foundation!

DoMore24

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Dear Friends,

On September 17th, 2013, there were 40 unmet requests for housing from survivors of domestic violence in D.C. In a single day, 40 survivors attempted to find housing to leave an abusive home but were turned down due to the lack of capacity and funding. At DASH we believe this is unacceptable.

On June 19^th, DASH is participating in DoMore24, a 24-hour online giving campaign designed to support organizations like DASH that make D.C. great. We are calling on all supporters, volunteers and housing champions to join in and Give, Share, Then Do More for our community to help survivors and their families stay safe.

Give – donate on June 19^th at the DoMore24 DASH page
Share – post on Facebook and Twitter about your donation and urge others to give
Then Do More – commit to finding 5 friends, coworkers and family members to donate to DASH for DoMore24!

At the end of the day, contributions will help to ensure that no one has to choose between living in an abusive home and living on the street.

“I’m happy long as I can sign something and it’s mine. I can open my own door, sleep in my own bed; my child is safe. I can decide when I come and go, and who can visit. I can lead my own life.” – Survivor

– $24 welcomes a survivor and her family to DASH safe housing with a gift basket of emergency supplies.

– $48 allows DASH to pay the fee for a survivor to apply for permanent rental housing. With your help DASH can cover a survivor’s application fee for rental housing – which is one small but impactful way you can help an abused family find housing stability, perhaps for the very first time.

– $96 will provide a transportation pass for a survivor and her family to arrive safely to and from work and school.

Mark your calendar for June 19^thand join in this one-day of community giving to support survivors and their families as they rebuild their lives on their own terms.

Many thanks,

DASH Staff

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